I have learned recently that if you throw it right back and show life that no matter how hard it can get, you can make the best of it, and you will be so much happier. I have been seriously so happy lately and I would have never guessed that I would be this happy after something unexpected happened. Life threw me a huge curve ball that blindsided me and because of it I am so unbelievably happy. How? Perspective. I decided to look at it in a positive way and not let it swallow me whole. Looking at it as a blessing in disguise instead, best decision I could have made.
You are in charge of your own happiness. You can control that. It's all up to you and your perspective.